Originally written for our May 2016 Picture of the Month email update
Living between two worlds is exactly what the month leading up to Home Assignment feels like. There is so much to do to prepare for a summer in the US – buying plane tickets, hotel and rental car reservations, taking prayer card pictures, preparing presentations, getting Luka onto a one nap schedule, because c’mon, who has time for two naps, and the list goes on and on.
But of course we can’t only focus on our summer. Ministry is still happening. Safe Haven girls need to be taught, papers from class at ABTS need to be graded, Sunday School curriculum is still being written, sweet refugee children are eagerly awaiting their weekly music class.
There is also all the work needing to be done in order for us to be gone for three months. Preparing games, crafts and homework for the Safe Haven summer program, arranging for someone else to teach a capstone course at ABTS, getting the house ready for guests to use this summer.
Add to that all the end of year craziness, a bazillion birthday parties, science fairs, final exams, end of year shows… I know you all can relate!
Oh yeah, there are also three children, who for some odd reason keep needing to be fed! :)
It’s a lot. We are busy. Sometimes I look at my calendar and can’t decide if I should cry or laugh. But to be honest, we can do busy like this for a limited time. We are actually pretty good at busy.
What surprises me every time we get to this stage of Home Assignment prep is how hard it is emotionally. We were at a birthday party last weekend, and when I took the picture above, I was laughing at my crazy little girl in her fancy dress at the top of the tree, while all the little boys stood shouting at her from the ground to come down! It’s not safe! You will fall!
But as I looked at the picture later, it represents so much of what life feels like in this transitional stage. Even though we are only leaving for the summer, it’s different than a family vacation. It’s a big transition for us all. And in preparation for the changes, I find myself disconnecting emotionally. While normally a birthday party is a great time to connect and get to know other parents better, I kinda just want to climb that tree and sit and watch from afar.
It’s a normal part of this life… the back and forth, never really fitting in anymore, but it still surprised me when I realized it was happening again. So I fight it, I force myself to stay engaged, to live in the present, and to leave well… knowing that it’s going to be a whole long summer of transitioning between hellos and good-byes. I’m reminded of when Jesus was on His way to heal the sick little girl, but was stopped by the woman who needed His help. He stopped. He engaged. He gave that woman all of his attention even though a little girl on her death bed was waiting for him. It’s a great challenge to all of us… to focus on what or who is in front of us, no matter what our to do list looks like.